Becoming I've Been Doing Everything I Could to Keep Us Together. Sometimes the smallest exercises reveal the biggest questions. This week it was a tongue-width exercise. It unexpectedly led me to wonder: What if the parts of ourselves we've been trying to fix have been trying to care for us all along? This is about where that question led me.
Healing Healing Without Disappearance Healing is often confused with disappearance. When attention is treated as authorship, responsibility leaks backward and persistence becomes failure. The Resonant Spectrum Principle reframes healing as coherence—remaining responsive and intact within what is present.
Noticing When Healing Stopped Arguing What if healing isn’t what we’ve been taught to expect? Living with CRPS opened a different possibility for me—one where listening replaced fixing, and permission mattered more than perfection.
